Growing up, I enjoyed watching my mom do things around the house, especially in the kitchen. Whatever she did, I watched how she did it, and then I asked her to let me try. To this day, when I peel an apple, I peel and slice it just like she did. When I chop an onion, I chop it just like she did. When I fold a shirt or a pair of socks, I fold them the way she did. I can’t tell you how many things I learned simply by watching her.
Listening to her, though, is a different story. She loves to tell others about her ironing one day, and I was there with her, my eyes following the tip of the iron gliding across the ironing board like the bow of a ship. I remember my fascination with the hissing sound of the steam and the clean smell of freshly ironed laundry. She set the iron on its back while putting something on a hanger or in the basket, and she said, “Don’t touch, it’s hot.” She laughs every time she tells that story, how, of course, as soon as she turned around, I touched the iron.
Many parents seem to think this has something to do with their children’s need to test boundaries or challenge parental authority. Maybe. What I remember is that I was curious about the meaning of ‘hot,’ and I learned to use a bit more caution when it comes to my desire to know – not every life lesson has to be painful, after all. There is truth, though, in the parents’ suspicion; little humans do like to push boundaries, just to see what will happen or how far we can go.
“Don’t play in the creek,” says the parent, “the water’s too high” – “Well, let’s see about that,” says the little one.
“We use the scissors only for cutting paper, don’t even think about cutting your brother’s hair” – well, dear parent, you know that you just planted an irresistible idea in your child’s mind, don’t you? Some say that the story of Adam and Eve, the tree and the serpent has something of that dynamic. God says, “You may freely eat of every tree of the garden, just not that one.” Suddenly that one tree, among all the trees of the garden, is the most fascinating and attractive. To me, the story is an invitation to think about what it means to be human.
Adam is named after adamah, the Hebrew word for the soil from which the human being is made. Adam, before it becomes the name for Eve’s partner, is the embodiment of humankind, and humankind is given three gifts: A beautiful, bountiful garden that is our home and our calling: our purpose is to be keepers of the garden; earth and earthling belong together. The second gift is God’s permission to freely eat of every tree; the garden is ours to inhabit, enjoy and explore. And the third gift is a boundary, a prohibition. As creatures of God we have limits, and within these limits life flourishes as God intends. To be human is to live with this God-given purpose, in God-given freedom, and within God-given limits.
According to the story, the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the earthling, and when they awoke, they were male and female – and things got even more complicated. Now we look at humankind not just in relationship to God and to the earth, but to each other.
The story of Adam and Eve and the serpent is incredibly generative. More than almost any other story, it has shaped and reshaped our views about moral freedom, male-female relationships, sin, shame, guilt, sex and work, and it comes with hundreds of years of footnotes and commentary. Some of the footnotes have caused a lot of pain, especially for women. E.g., we read in 1 Timothy 2:11-15,
Let a woman learn in silence with full submission. I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing, provided they continue in faith and love and holiness, with modesty.
Not so fast, dear writer, you can’t just assume that all your readers are sharing your assumptions. This one certainly doesn’t. If anybody was actually deceived in the garden, it was the two of them together; Adam was there, after all. It’s not like he came home after a long day of tilling and keeping to eat his dinner of forbidden fruit. You could make an argument that if Adam is that clueless, he – the man – shouldn’t be teaching anybody, but rather be the one learning in silence. But the story is bigger than its highly questionable use in blaming others or silencing voices that those in power want to shush.
Many footnotes have identified the serpent with the devil, but the story says the serpent was just that, a serpent, one of the animals of the field God had made. It was part of God’s creation, not some cosmic intruder bent on disruption. The serpent was crafty, cunning, smart, wise, yes, but not evil.
The serpent began a conversation, and you may think a talking snake is curious – but this is not the first story you’ve heard that has talking animals in it, is it? I find far more intriguing that this was the first conversation that wasn’t with but rather about God. In a way, we’re witnessing the beginnings of theology. The serpent inquired, “Did God say, ‘You shall not eat from any tree in the garden’?” and it’s entirely up to us to decide if that significant overstatement was an innocent mistake or a trick to sow suspicion. The woman corrected the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden; but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the middle of the garden’” and she added, with no basis in anything God said according to the story, “’nor shall you touch it, or you shall die.’” And the serpent replied, “You will not die; for God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
The serpent tells the humans something God didn’t tell them, and so the word of the serpent puts the word of God in question. Did God keep something back? Why didn’t God tell them the whole truth about the matter? Does God really have their best interest at heart or is God jealously protecting divine privileges? Suddenly the words and motivations are in question along with the larger matter if the creator of life can be trusted when it comes to what makes for the flourishing of life.
What will the human beings do? Here’s what they don’t do: They do not turn to God for answers, nor do they turn to each other to discuss their options and decide how to proceed. Instead they turn to the tree and its promises, and they take of its fruit and eat in silence.
And nobody dies. It turns out that the serpent hadn’t deceived them, but rather told them the truth; perhaps not the whole truth, but who knows if it knew the whole truth.
We are created for relationship with God and with each other, but our relationship with God is not simply part of our genetic program. It is rooted in trust. The story allows us to reflect on what happens when mistrust creeps in: alienation and estrangement grow, silence and shame drive out joy. Mistrust disrupts the fabric of creation and puts life on a trajectory away from communion with God, and death creeps in.
Death creeps in – not in the form of mortality, mortality is part of life – death creeps in in the breakdown of the relationships that make us human: our relationship with God, with the created order, and with each other. Life is no longer rooted in mutuality and care, but in suspicion and competition.
When Paul writes that sin came into the world through one man, it’s not so we can all blame Adam as though Adam were somebody else. We are Adam the earthling, created for communion with God, yet unable to escape the dominion of sin after we have given it access to God’s world. Sin is too big for us; bigger than the sum total of the wrong we have done and the good we have not done, bigger than all our loveless thoughts and thoughtless words together.
Paul wants us to see is that sin is not a lower-case transgression, not even a human disposition, but an upper-case power that enslaves us and keeps us from being who we are meant to be.
But Paul doesn’t want us to see that because he relishes gloom and doom and sin talk. He wants us to know that big, upper-case, creation-enslaving Sin has been defeated. Paul points to Jesus as the one human being who lived the life God intended for humankind. Jesus was fully at home in his relationship with God and God’s creation and with all of us. Mistrust could not enter; rejection and injustice could not break the bond of love. Sin and Death had their way with him, but sin’s dominion and the reach of death ended at the cross.
God raised Jesus from the dead, making him the firstborn of a new creation where sin and death are no more. And just as Adam was our life pattern in the oppressive, sad solidarity of sin and alienation, Jesus now is humanity’s life pattern in the liberating, joyful solidarity of grace. Just as we were one in Adam under sin’s dominion, we are one in Christ and find our true human identity under his dominion of grace. And the reach of grace is greater than the reach of sin ever was.
Lent began on Wednesday with ashes smudged on our foreheads and somber words urging us, “Remember, you are dust, and to dust you shall return.” Remember you are mortal, you are human. The ashes were all that was left of the palm branches we waived when Jesus came riding into town and we were so excited about God’s reign on earth. The branches went up in flames much like the exuberance of our joy and our commitment to living as God’s people, on God’s terms, in God’s creation. Ashes were all that was left, and on Wednesday we used them to have the symbol of our hope traced on our foreheads – the cross of Christ, the triumph of God’s love over sin.
Lent is the gift of forty days to reflect on our priorities. Reconsider our choices. Remember our calling. Renew our commitments. Refocus our attention. Resist the pull of lovelessness. Return to a baptized life. Reclaim our identity as God’s own – in one word, repent. Forty days to let the Spirit lead us to a fuller understanding of what it means to follow Jesus and find fullness of life through him.
